10.9.12

my affinity towards the tri-cities…

this trip? i feel guilty saying things like, “i needed this family-reunion-vacation” knowing traveling is a luxury, but i’m still going to say it. since we’ve returned to our home {almost five weeks ago} i am more relaxed than i’ve been in a long time, in sync with my husband, nature, my own mind and spirit. like my soul has found a peace it needed. why? i believe it was because i reconnected with so many of my kinfolk.

i believe, we each need those connections to stay balanced.

{Pasco farmer’s market | my sister-in-law Janice, moi, niece Marisa | fresh flowers for my dad’s grave}

visiting my Dad’s grave in Kennewick…

visiting husbands nephew Jonathan & family in Richland…

a perfect evening on the columbia river with Danyelle and her family

while in the tri-cities we stayed with my uncle bob, my dad’s brother, who is one of my few remaining Beckner relatives. i never lived in the tri-cities area while i was growing-up, but i visited the area consistently 3-4 times a year throughout all of my childhood. my dad grew-up ranching in richland, and his kids {from his first marriage} all remained there with their families.

my uncle bob is very dear to my heart, a salt of the earth kind of man. he hosted a Beckner barbecue for our family so we could visit with as many family members as possible.

it was definitely one of those wow, this is really happening moments. people who love each other and talk about being together more often — here we were, at the end of August, in the middle of the tri-cities — together.

{my brother Jim | moi | sister Linda | sister Donna}

a sparkling end to our evening —

{how do you take a photo like this? each person lines up, holds one sparkler and repeatedly makes the shape of the letter – backwards. you then set your camera on a night setting allowing the lens to stay open longer. experiment! it’s fun.}

cousins, and 2nd cousins

Taylor | Paula | KJ | myla | sela | moi | shannon | kiana

husband & uncle bob | myla convinced her cousin Taylor to try one of myla’s “ideas” {so happy no one was hurt!} | paula, moi, shannon

our ten days in washington state were so beautifully woven together, that as we left town and drove through yakima – the fresh fruit & antiques sign was spotted – i was taken back by my memories one more time…

when my dad and i would make the drive from western washington to eastern washington, we routinely would stop at fresh fruit stands, stock-up on tomatoes and other fresh goodies, then stop along a waterfront to enjoy our goods. we always salted our tomatoes and ate them just like apples. my heart aches a bit thinking about it, and yet, i cherish the memory more now the i’ve shared this tradition with my kids.

on our last night in seattle, we ventured out to the piers one more time.

and if fresh tomatoes weren’t the perfect way to end our stay in the northwest, riding the new great wheel was.

{photos by me, Jane Beckner Rhodes}

10.9.12

Mt. Rainier

we visited paradise.

first stop, christine falls —

second stop, narada falls —

the kids and i are tiny little dots standing on the bridge at the top of narada falls.

third stop, paradise

what am i doing in this last picture? i am taking a picture out the window of our SUV of that tree that stands alone on that little island. poetic, isn’t it?

i love where we live right now, and i have loved all the places i’ve lived. but lawdhavemercy do i ever love the paradise i left. washington state is truly one of the most beautiful states, and showing our kids that truth was incredible.

{photos by me.}

10.9.12

nostalgic…

the washington-family-reunion-road-trip-vacation-documentation continues on…

after our stop at lake quinault, we continued on to montesano. Montesano, Washington is my hometown. i was born in Juneau, Alaska and also moved to American Fork, Utah the year i was in third grade, but I definitely claim Montesano as my hometown. I lived their most the years from the time i was an infant till i was thirteen years old. and now, my kiddos have been there! so cool.

when i was a kid my grandpa would always tell me this story:

in the early days there was an indian chief named Monte, and one day the indian chief from the next village over paid Monte a visit. His son wanted to marry Monte’s daughter. The neighboring chief asked permission for his son to ask the daughter for her hand in marriage, and Monte said, “Monte say no.” which quickly gave our town the name, “Montesano.”

I have no idea where this story originates, but thought i would share — because it is one of many stories my kiddos had to hear on this trip. ::smiles::

…we pulled into town and i gave my family a driving tour of my cozy pacific northwest corner. i had half a notion to just keep on driving in circles. driving on roads my childhood knew so well around lakes, down gullies, across weathered bridges that we used to jump off of. the sky was blue and clear. i took my kids to see my elementary school, the softball field i played on, and the lake where i learned to swim.

we also briefly stopped at the house i grew-up in…

{when i lived there it was all white, no fence, and sans house-accessories. my grandpa was also an amazing gardener, and our yard was always perfectly mowed with beautiful flowers and a rose garden down the left side along the neighbors driveway.}

isn’t it an interesting feeling to experience nostalgia? to feel so completely attached to something that is now gone and only a memory. have you seen your childhood home lately? is it something you see often? never? has it been passed down through generations, and you still live there? were you like me – and you had a collection of childhood homes?

while in town we stopped by one of the local diners “the Beehive” {my mom worked here when i was really young.} to meet up with one of my childhood bestie – Ranee – and her family…

i used to have free reign in this town – just looking at those streets reminds me of how often i road my bike to the store for a treat… all the small town parades and festivals. such magical memories.

we then headed on down the road a bit farther with a stop in Chehalis. i have a niece who currently lives there with her kids. we had just enough time for a quick visit, and dinner…

from Chehalis we cruised west on highway 12 trying to get to our cabin in time before we were locked out for the night…

happy to report, we made it.

on this evening, i put my camera aside and only took a couple of pictures on my iPhone. we rented a cabin via Jasmers at Mt. Rainier, and we were snuggly tucked in under Mt. Rainier’s shadows.

i feel so proud and nostalgic giving my kids a piece of my childhood memories this summer. i feel more complete.

{photos by me, Jane Beckner Rhodes}

10.1.12

lake quinault, washington

now, i slightly lower my voice and speak in a whisper for this post. because dude, this day on our trip was so incredible it deserves a respectful whisper…

seventeen years ago, i took my husband {at the time, he was my fiancĂ©} to visit lake quinault with my dad. husband instantly loved this place, as i already did. right at that moment, we said we would go back. over the years, we have often mentioned wanting to go back. then, we mentioned wanting to take the kids… and then, it happened. we went back with our kids. and it melted my heart that they all loved it.

one more place to call ours. one of my favorite places on earth.

there was a lot of chess played on this trip. in the backseat while we were driving. at families homes we visited. in our hotels… i couldn’t decide if it was good or bad for our relationships when the games would become SO INTENSE and inevitably every game ended with someone in tears, or holding back tears.

regardless, there are very few things as sweet as seeing siblings play together —

i packed my ugg slippers just for this morning on our trip… i couldn’t wait to wake up, put them on, and hang-out at the lodge.

let me remind you, that as much as our family loves the outdoors, we’re not very outdoors-y. hence, soon after husband was paddling our row boat {with some struggles} out into the lake…

our daughter who is more keen to the outdoors than all of us put together, took over—

we didn’t catch any fish while in our row boat, but kj and myla fished from shore and had great luck! i was over by the lodge when all of a sudden i heard all my kids, MOM! MOM! MOM! myla caught a fish!

somehow i was the one who had to unhook that fish. all the knowledge i have on doing this i learned from my dad during the first twelve years of my life. needless to say, i struggled a bit and the poor fishy did not look good {minus one eyeball} when i released it…

then, kj caught a fish and myla did the releasing. no eyeballs went missing.

on our way out, we packed up the SUV and headed down the road…

i cheerfully announce to my family,
everyone out of the car! we’re walking .3 mile to see the world’s largest spruce tree!

my teenager:
can’t we just drive there?!?

{TEENAGERS!}

like larger than life trees, our epic washington road trip continues… i had a goal to get all the washington blog posts done by midnight. tonight. i’m sure you are all tired of reading about it, i just want it to be perfectly documented for our future blurb books.

lets see if i can get it done by midnight next monday… ::winks::

{all photos by me.}

10.1.12

Hoh rain forest

Dear Hoh,

You were beautiful, and exceeded our expectations. thank you.

the only downside of Hoh: the olympic national park does not have any cell phone/internet service. what’s up with that?!? {kidding. kind of.}

{photos by me, jane rhodes}

9.30.12

Port Angeles * Forks * what do these two places have in common?

vampires!!!

yes, believe it or not, we most definitely stopped to see the twilight sights while on this trip…

you do remember i have 12 & 14 year old daughters who are twilights fans, right??? {and their momma, just a bit… i LOVE that it put the pacific northwest on the map!}

while we are on the subject, i still heavily covet the hoke house {cullen house from twilight}, and have you seen the latest trailer for breaking dawn part 2??? November 16th!

our twilight movie experiences here, here, here, AND here.

{photos by me.}

9.30.12

tall tall trees

we were emersed in the land of tall tall trees, which is why i think husband and i were inspired to play country music. i spent most of my teen years listening to country music, and pretty much haven’t since then… i currently thrive on adult-alternative tunes. husband has listened to country music on and off throughout his life, mostly off the past sixteen years. he listens to e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g else… and he’s known to sing around the house and adores karaoke. seriously. so, in a nutshell, our kiddos have not heard country music.

now, imagine if you will, the scene below:

now add six of us singing at the top of our lungs to alan jackson’s tall tall trees! we were the happiest bunch of goof balls you ever did see – catching smiles and winks from one another in the car..

and would you even believe what happened next? we stopped at crescent lake, and as we got out of the car we were greeted by moths butterflies. they landed on us, and sela was able to catch one — magical.

then… we discovered the most beautiful lake. the pictures do not do it justice. and i tried taking pictures of the water, but my camera greatly failed. it’s clear. just as clear as day. no algae. lined with trees, it is spectacular. you simply must see it for yourself.

sadly, we had to leave…

now pardon me, i have some country music calling in the kitchen, it’s time to go sing and dance!

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a few of our road-trippin’ country tunes: turn this up loud now {introduce these songs to your kids or friends if they haven’t heard them!}, and enjoy your day! xoxo.

tall tall trees | little bitty | chasing that neon rainbow | i should’ve asked her faster | sold | mr. mom | friends in low places

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{see jane’s shirt, shoes, sela’s shirt, pants, shoes, myla’s shirt, shoes}

{photos by me, jane beckner rhodes}

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