10.9.12

my affinity towards the tri-cities…

this trip? i feel guilty saying things like, “i needed this family-reunion-vacation” knowing traveling is a luxury, but i’m still going to say it. since we’ve returned to our home {almost five weeks ago} i am more relaxed than i’ve been in a long time, in sync with my husband, nature, my own mind and spirit. like my soul has found a peace it needed. why? i believe it was because i reconnected with so many of my kinfolk.

i believe, we each need those connections to stay balanced.

{Pasco farmer’s market | my sister-in-law Janice, moi, niece Marisa | fresh flowers for my dad’s grave}

visiting my Dad’s grave in Kennewick…

visiting husbands nephew Jonathan & family in Richland…

a perfect evening on the columbia river with Danyelle and her family

while in the tri-cities we stayed with my uncle bob, my dad’s brother, who is one of my few remaining Beckner relatives. i never lived in the tri-cities area while i was growing-up, but i visited the area consistently 3-4 times a year throughout all of my childhood. my dad grew-up ranching in richland, and his kids {from his first marriage} all remained there with their families.

my uncle bob is very dear to my heart, a salt of the earth kind of man. he hosted a Beckner barbecue for our family so we could visit with as many family members as possible.

it was definitely one of those wow, this is really happening moments. people who love each other and talk about being together more often — here we were, at the end of August, in the middle of the tri-cities — together.

{my brother Jim | moi | sister Linda | sister Donna}

a sparkling end to our evening —

{how do you take a photo like this? each person lines up, holds one sparkler and repeatedly makes the shape of the letter – backwards. you then set your camera on a night setting allowing the lens to stay open longer. experiment! it’s fun.}

cousins, and 2nd cousins

Taylor | Paula | KJ | myla | sela | moi | shannon | kiana

husband & uncle bob | myla convinced her cousin Taylor to try one of myla’s “ideas” {so happy no one was hurt!} | paula, moi, shannon

our ten days in washington state were so beautifully woven together, that as we left town and drove through yakima – the fresh fruit & antiques sign was spotted – i was taken back by my memories one more time…

when my dad and i would make the drive from western washington to eastern washington, we routinely would stop at fresh fruit stands, stock-up on tomatoes and other fresh goodies, then stop along a waterfront to enjoy our goods. we always salted our tomatoes and ate them just like apples. my heart aches a bit thinking about it, and yet, i cherish the memory more now the i’ve shared this tradition with my kids.

on our last night in seattle, we ventured out to the piers one more time.

and if fresh tomatoes weren’t the perfect way to end our stay in the northwest, riding the new great wheel was.

{photos by me, Jane Beckner Rhodes}

10.9.12

nostalgic…

the washington-family-reunion-road-trip-vacation-documentation continues on…

after our stop at lake quinault, we continued on to montesano. Montesano, Washington is my hometown. i was born in Juneau, Alaska and also moved to American Fork, Utah the year i was in third grade, but I definitely claim Montesano as my hometown. I lived their most the years from the time i was an infant till i was thirteen years old. and now, my kiddos have been there! so cool.

when i was a kid my grandpa would always tell me this story:

in the early days there was an indian chief named Monte, and one day the indian chief from the next village over paid Monte a visit. His son wanted to marry Monte’s daughter. The neighboring chief asked permission for his son to ask the daughter for her hand in marriage, and Monte said, “Monte say no.” which quickly gave our town the name, “Montesano.”

I have no idea where this story originates, but thought i would share — because it is one of many stories my kiddos had to hear on this trip. ::smiles::

…we pulled into town and i gave my family a driving tour of my cozy pacific northwest corner. i had half a notion to just keep on driving in circles. driving on roads my childhood knew so well around lakes, down gullies, across weathered bridges that we used to jump off of. the sky was blue and clear. i took my kids to see my elementary school, the softball field i played on, and the lake where i learned to swim.

we also briefly stopped at the house i grew-up in…

{when i lived there it was all white, no fence, and sans house-accessories. my grandpa was also an amazing gardener, and our yard was always perfectly mowed with beautiful flowers and a rose garden down the left side along the neighbors driveway.}

isn’t it an interesting feeling to experience nostalgia? to feel so completely attached to something that is now gone and only a memory. have you seen your childhood home lately? is it something you see often? never? has it been passed down through generations, and you still live there? were you like me – and you had a collection of childhood homes?

while in town we stopped by one of the local diners “the Beehive” {my mom worked here when i was really young.} to meet up with one of my childhood bestie – Ranee – and her family…

i used to have free reign in this town – just looking at those streets reminds me of how often i road my bike to the store for a treat… all the small town parades and festivals. such magical memories.

we then headed on down the road a bit farther with a stop in Chehalis. i have a niece who currently lives there with her kids. we had just enough time for a quick visit, and dinner…

from Chehalis we cruised west on highway 12 trying to get to our cabin in time before we were locked out for the night…

happy to report, we made it.

on this evening, i put my camera aside and only took a couple of pictures on my iPhone. we rented a cabin via Jasmers at Mt. Rainier, and we were snuggly tucked in under Mt. Rainier’s shadows.

i feel so proud and nostalgic giving my kids a piece of my childhood memories this summer. i feel more complete.

{photos by me, Jane Beckner Rhodes}

9.30.12

Port Townsend

we ventured out of Sequim, and headed to Port Townsend for one day. it still amazes me how much sunshine we had during our 10-day trip to Washington state. we spent six of those days in the Pacific Northwest with only ONE day of rain. most of you will never understand how amazing that is…

Port Townsend is a small section of the northwest that reminds me of the northeast. a beautiful waterfront community with no shortage of sail boats, seagulls, and fresh seafood.

while driving into the area, we spotted a VW fair and had to stop!

says Kiana: this is the car i want, exact color, when i turn 16!

lets all remind her of this in 16 months. it’s so practical for a four-season location! maybe it will be time to move to southern california by then…

KJ looks like Shaggy here with his long curls and VW bus, am i right?!?

* spotted: my kiddos standing with their legs crossed in the goofy-exact-same-way. do you notice when your kids do things like this???

the next morning, we headed out of Sequim and onto our next stop…

{photos by me.}

9.30.12

purple haze lavender farm

we fell in love with this place. if i ever get the opportunity to live on and run a lavender farm… i will not pass it up. pending, i also live near a big city of course. my soul splits itself between two perfect places to live. i’d like to spend time in a quiet rural cottage {or beach house} where i could watch my kids play in wide open spaces all day and a manhattan apartment where we go and enjoy the nonstop city life. and, i’d like a cool roof garden in the city to overlap the two. ::smiles::

i am so happy here, squeezing and watching my kiddos write chapters in their Washington-trip childhood books. hopefully these are memories they will never forget.

our SUV during this road trip smelled beautifully like lavender. each time we opened the doors, the scent welcomed us.

where would you live, and what would you do if adventure sent you the invite?

{all photos by me.}

9.25.12

family time…

i can’t say this enough – one of the best parts of our washington trip was how much time we spent together as a family + how much time we spent with extended family. from here on out, we are going to try and plan 10-day road trips as a part of every summer. it was priceless.

my kiddos thought aunt sue’s house was an amusement park between the wildlife, cool greenhouse, and the dog that would play with them for hours — they were in heaven!

did you “drive” on your parent’s laps when you were little???

while driving —
big papi: stay in the lines.
sela: oh! i get it! this is just like coloring!

Family is not an important thing, it’s everything.
-Michael J. Fox

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my sisters greenhouse really got me thinking about gardening, and greenhouses in general. I would be the happiest woman to get my fingers back in some dirt this next spring. i’m pinning inspiring images here.

{photos by me.}

9.19.12

hurricane ridge

we spent a good amount of time in national parks on our washington trip.  starting with the olympic national park, we ate lunch one afternoon al fresco style, on top of hurricane ridge. we felt like we were eating on top of the world!

you can see by the pictures below, the clouds would just float right over the ridge, right past us…

{all photos by me.}

9.19.12

graysmarsh farm

from seattle we took a ferry and headed up to Sequim where my sister lives.

our kiddos were fascinated by the ferry’s that you actually drive your car on, park, and cruise across the water.

our first morning in sequim {pronounced s-q-w-i-mmm} we headed out to graysmarsh farm to pick berries. picking berries was a big part of my childhood in the pacific northwest. however, we didn’t ever go to farms to pick berries. my dad would find good patches of wild blackberries, then i’d spend my weekend picking till my hands were stained purple. We would keep some for ourselves, and the extra berries i would sell to the local berry shed for about 25 cents a pound. it was child labor at it’s best. and i think i made a whopping ten dollars a summer.

we relished these fresh berries. i can’t even describe how fresh, sun-warmed, and delicious they are.

we picked logan berries, raspberries, black berries, and blue berries. the only problem: we were not supposed to pick and eat. so, we just paid extra at checkout. our bellies were stuffed with berries – totally irresistible.

aunt sue with our kiddos. {look at the lavender field in the background!}

and! the fruit of our labors:

it was so fun to pick the berries, and have my kiddos help to bake a fresh berry pie. pie was also a big part of my childhood – i have so many memories of my mom making pies, specifically rheubard pie {which was NOT my favorite.} perhaps i am bias, but i also believe the northwest to be the home of america’s best pies. almost every restaurant serves fresh pie, probably due to the incredible, local fresh fruit. i tend to only make pies at Thanksgiving time, you?

we enjoyed our warm berry pie a’la mode over a long game of Risk…

{husbands favorite board game.}

this turned out to be one of my favorite vacation days, ever.
have you been to sequim? while there i found out one of my seejaneblog readers lives in my sisters neighborhood! how cool is that? {hello nancy!} small world.

{photos by me.}

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