4.9.13

talking with your kids about difficult subjects: illness, death, and more…

mary had a little lamb house in massachusetts via seejaneblog.co

talking to children about difficult topics is a hard, yet crucial, part of parenting. in the past i’ve discussed the “birds and the bees” talk on seejaneblog. that is just one of many difficult subjects to discuss with children. today, i am sharing ten recommendations for having similar conversations with your kids. i would really like to hear what you have to say on the subject. head over to Boston Mamas right here to read the post!

good luck parenting, friends.  i’m having my roughest year yet – darn teenagers.

* picture taken via instagram @see_jane this past fall while visiting the schoolhouse that inspired the nursery rhyme mary had a little lamb. it’s located in sudbury, massachusetts and you can read more about it, here and here.

2.25.13

a winters day at the beach…

as much as i love routine and traditions, i also love doing really random things that are brand new.

for example, going to the beach for a picnic in february…

a day at the beach in the winter via seejaneblog

winter picnic on the east coast via seejaneblog

playing wiffle ball on the beach via seejaneblog

KJ pitching wiffle ball on the beach via seejaneblog

winter picnic on nantasket beach via seejaneblog

wellies at the beach via seejaneblog

winter picnic at nantasket beach via seejaneblog

beach combing in the winter via seejaneblog

wellies and beanies on the beach via seejaneblog

Nantasket beach ma in february via seejaneblog

as i mentioned in my last post, my kiddos had a week long vacation. we spent our time playing with lots of friends, visiting museums, going to movies, and running around the beach in our wellies. perhaps my favorite winter activity so far. while at the beach we filled our tummies with peanut butter and honey sandwiches, cocoa, tea, and lots of other snacks. i am craving spring, but i also hope it snows a couple more times so we can visit more beaches to play wiffle ball in the fog. and enjoy more warming chocolate beverage.

have you ever seen snow on sand?

{photos by me, Jane Rhodes}

2.11.13

the blizzard of 2013

during our nineteen months in new england, we have lived through hurricane irene {and!}, hurricane sandy and now the biggest snow storm to hit new england in the past thirty years: nemo.

homemade bobsledding via seejaneblogpsd

myla created a homemade bobsled run. if you have the app: vine, there is a fun video on there of this moment!

the perk of extreme weather: our family is very content staying home together. meaning: we love it. really. no sarcasm here. our governor banned driving on saturday at 4pm until sunday at 4pm. luckily, our house was stocked with food and all we needed. more luck: we never lost electricity with this storm!

blizzard of 2013 via seejaneblogs home

we watched lots of tv, played monopoly, spent time outside shoveling snow, snow-blowing, and sledding. the neighborhood boys picked our house to be the hang-out headquarters, so i fed extra mouths at every meal. we matched the record breaking snow totals with record breaking laziness.

blizzard of 2013 seejaneblog

i hope everyone here in the northeast faired the storm well. remember punxsutawney phil did not see his shadow this year, and spring should come early!

{photos by me, Jane Rhodes}

12.30.12

snow in boston!

two hours before myla’s birthday party, the first snowflakes started falling. by the time her party ended, and the guests were being picked up, we had about four inches of snow! {best birthday present for my girl ever!} then, by the next morning we had ten inches of fluffy, white goodness! one of the things we anticipated with moving to boston was to experience intense new-england-style-winters with a constant blanket of snow. so, we were slightly disappointed last year when we didn’t use a single snow day, and didn’t have hardly any snowfall the entire winter!

at bedtime, sela was outside:

snowing in boston

my happy panda

the next afternoon, i rallied husband to go out with me, and build an igloo. complete with twinkle lights:

igloo with twinkle lights via seejaneblog

{we used snow block molds similar to this. i purchased ours locally for only $2.00/mold, so it surprised me to see them priced higher on amazon. look at your local toy shops/walmart/target/etc. our igloo took about three hours to build, for those who are curious}

due to cold temperatures, our snow is still here! this past week, KJ ran home from school every day, checked-in with me, grabbed our sleds, and as i listened to the crunch of boots to snow, he went back to school to sled on the school hill with his buddies. the weather forecast is saying we get more snow tomorrow too. yay!!!

KJ with sleds

from the warmth of our home, i can peek on my little man sledding from the third floor of our house. it’s so fun watching them go down in long trains and open the window just enough to hear all the laughter:

KJ and buddies sledding

sela asks to play in the snow every half hour, and returns even quicker with chilled rosy cheeks. we are making lots of cocoa at our house, the fire is almost always ablaze. i love it all. i love every season for what each offers. in the midst of all this, i am thinking about resolutions–because that’s just what you do this time of year. i want to find more ways to let the people i love know i appreciate them. i want to let go a little more–of fears, of insecurities, of the things that hold me back. 2013 is going to be amazing.

dear readers, is it snowing where you live? are you thinking about resolutions?

{photos by me. all via my iPhone, + VSCO filters, and instagram}

12.3.12

the freedom trail

while our friends scott & susan + kiddos were here, we ventured out to walk the freedom trail in downtown boston. we have seen most of the sites on the trail, but our kids had still never walked it.  husband and i walked it a few years back when we were visiting boston.

this particular day was a beautiful, sunny afternoon when we headed out – we planned on walking it by ourselves, then last minute signed up for a tour which turned out to be worth every penny. the guided tours don’t cover the entire trail, but our tour guide was totally into his character which made history a bit more exciting for all the kids…

in case you don’t know, you follow the red-brick-trail for two-and-a-half miles throughout downtown boston. i’m guessing we covered just less than a mile…

“The Granary Burying Ground, founded in 1660, is the final resting place for some of the most famous names in the history of our country. Standing front and center in the cemetery is a large monument marking the graves of Benjamin Franklin’s parents, Josiah and Abiah. The victims of the Boston Massacre are located under a single stone near the front entrance to the cemetery. A walk around these aged stones reads like a who’s who of history. The markers for Samuel Adams, John Hancock(right), Paul Revere, and even Mother Goose, yes, Mother Goose, can be found with relative ease. These people seemed like only myths when reading about them in school, standing before the markers of their graves brought the human element out of what used to be just stories growing up. It is easy to lose track of time here but there is so much more to see.”

the headstone on the right reads “mother goose” as mentioned above. she was a woman with 22 grand-children known during her time for telling stories. i bet i would have really liked her…

Paul Revere was a copper smith, and today it is considered good luck if you add a penny to his headstone, the kids all added pennies…

you can spot christmas in the city everywhere you look!

our guided tour ended at faneuil hall, where we ate dinner at hillstone, boston’s “houston’s” if you are familiar with it from other cities… i can not recommend the veggie burger enough!!!

the rest of our night went down in Rhodes/Bland history…

{in hillstone with a football. nbd. this pigskin goes with us e-v-e-r-y-w-h-e-r-e.}

and this year, we visited the frog pond ice skating rink at boston common. but, we were wise and chose not to ice skate. we just enjoyed the atmosphere.

have you walked the freedom trail?

{photos by me, Jane Rhodes. the freedom trail info. here}

11.8.12

minimal | modern | rustic | cozy

…those are all the styles/feelings/words i had in mind when i briefly redecorated our home for November. not to offend thanksgiving {or any of you!}, but i’ve never been a big fan of traditional thanksgiving/fall/november decor. maybe this is why i like to go straight from halloween decor to christmas. ???

although we have one christmas tree up, i still wanted to focus on the month feeling cozy, and natural. a very inviting home. with a neutral color palette.

so, i kept things very simple. using pine cones, birch logs, plants, furry blankets, and… more pine cones. take a look:

a few of these items you can add to your homes by one walk in nature, and a few art supplies – gather pine cones, find large ones to paint white, use smaller ones for garland, fill vases with pine cones, and make some pine cone flowers! I found birch logs at a local nursery. Pull out your favorite family blankets and quilts for the cooler months. i like to keep stacks of blankets {+ board games & puzzles} right in our living room for family game time, tv time and a spontaneous winter nap.

i hope you all have happy, thankful hearts this month as the temperatures get cooler, and we head into the holiday season. has it snowed where you live? we had our first snow yesterday!  and, it was the first nor’easter to come to new england since we moved here.  one of my goals: to have a wood-burning fire every night this winter, it seems to encourage snuggles on the couch with those you love.

cheers to a cozy season! xo.

{all photos by me, Jane Beckner Rhodes}

10.31.12

the magic of beacon hill on halloween…

believe what you see – those are christmas tree lights in the background of our halloween dinner…

when hurricane sandy was en route to our state, and we were on day two of sitting in the house i told the kids maybe we’ll put the christmas tree up if we get really bored… and when you even mention christmas tree to a six year old girl. she doesn’t let you forget. ::smiles::

first things first — husband made it home safely and in time for halloween! {booyah!} AND! he brought us all cafe rio for dinner the night he flew home to boston from utah. bless his little black soul – he is the best man ever!

and now — our second year trick or treating at beacon hill and all the spooky magic it offers:

it is tradition now, {since last year, ha!} to start and end our halloween night with cocoa, and tea at the beacon hill/boston common starbucks. my little mime was truly a sad mime. sela did not want the evening to end. none of us did. were you happy with your haunted evening???

see last year at beacon hill here, and previous halloweens herehere {one of my finest momma-design-halloween video moments ever: kJ’s transforming costume!}, here and here!

{photos via me, and thank you {!!!} to my friends rachel and lindsey for sharing pictures. xo.}

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